When my husband and I were dating, there were times that he would go dark and I wouldn’t hear from him for a day or two. This was, of course, in the archaic time before everyone had a cell phone so we didn’t hear back from someone at a moment’s notice. We both had full time jobs and hectic schedules, so I never really thought too much about not getting a quick reply from him if I left a message on his answering machine at home or voice mail at work.
We thought you'd also like: 10 Ways I Am Teaching My Tweens How to Be Unbusy Shortly after we were married and actually living under the same roof, I started to understand a bit more about my husband’s “ghosting” periods. No, he wasn’t having a torrid affair or anything improper. He simply needed and loved his alone time.
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